Starting a new relationship is the most delicate part of a relationship since it determines whether there would be a deal or not.
Thus both men and women need to be as careful as possible.
We look at some of the mistakes ladies make and can avoid at the onset of a relationship
1 Project in the future.
To think that when starting to go out with a man, he will marry, have children, build his home. It is better to live the present. While the woman is planning to build, the man is thinking about keeping.
2 See the man as the blue prince who will solve all life.
She found the perfect man who will solve the financial problems, give him children, accompany, fix the bathroom, wash the car and make her happy in all aspects.
Men feel when a woman sees them as their savior and that weighs too much.
3 I’ll take this one anyway!
“Now that I’ve found a good man, I did not let him go for nothing” is what many women think.
Man feels like a caged monkey. Do not make the mistake of taking all your spaces, to feel happy when you can have your personal moments.
4 Make it public.
You tell everyone that you have a relationship when they only came out three times, you publish it on Twitter and Facebook.
You write like “Finding yourself was the best thing that ever happened to me”, “Today I return to believe in love”.
Slowly, not all like to publish their personal life in so little time to get to know each other.
5 Emotionally load the man.
Showing you a short time of desperate love relationship, in need of affection, weak, who suffers for everything he does or says makes man responsible for mental and emotional health, is too much burden to just be starting.
Men prefer safe, calm women who know how to take on life.
6 Make everything very easy.
For the eagerness to like you, whatever you do, until you become the perfect woman.
Men do not want that because their role of conquest is taken away from them. Too much obedience is not so healthy in relationships and more so when it is beginning.
7 Go very fast.
Men and women fall in love at different times. They, at first, can feel very much in love, but it is only a hormonal result that is reduced after the first three months. They, on the contrary, are more measured and they see that the man conquers them, they are deluded and hope, but they can fly very fast, fall and give themselves very hard blows.
Men want to get everything fast, they even propose to live together, but it is not healthy to run. It is better that you leave it with expectations, that you have your feet on the ground, keep your center, enjoy going out with it, but keep on maintaining your life.
8 Accept a non-ideal man.
It does not matter if you want a partner more than anything else, I chose well. Many women, as long as they are not left alone, continue alongside sexist men, infidels, liars, alcoholics, etc.
Or that they do not like interest. Always keep in mind that you have the option to end the relationship.
Men want sex right away and feel powerful when they satisfy women, so be prepared to enjoy yourself. The question is not whether to do it or not, it is to do it when you can enjoy it.
It is not the best lover that makes the most positions, but the one that connects sexually and really enjoys the moment, in which two bodies and two beings come together.
10 Not having self-love.
A woman who does not know who she is or what she wants, has no identity or strong interests and only begins to live the life of the man with whom she goes out, loses all the attraction.
So the most important thing is that you are happy with yourself, work on your self-esteem and self-esteem.
When you go out with someone, I understand that I have accompanies your life, but it is not your life and you have to continue with your projects and personal life.
More authentic women will always be more attractive than those who do not have a life of their own.