Since there are no two equal pairs, there are no two equal breaks either. And the break that hurts the most is always the one you are living right now. But let’s take some time to analyze those kinds of difficult breaks, let’s also take note that next time we’ll get more prepared and take note of what to do in each situation and how to overcome them.
1 Ghosting the ghost. The ghosting break is the one in which your partner disappears from your life without giving an explanation. The classic was for tobacco and did not return, but with a renewed touch. If you have not lived it yet, calm, because it is very fashionable and will touch or not, but if it happens to you the best thing to do is try to close the door as soon as possible. If he has left you like this, he does not deserve to give you one more thought.
2 Disguising. Just like the one who does not want the thing, your partner distances and disengages the relationship until everything stops making sense. As you already start to see strange things, you also go away from everything and, in the end, you even go to take the step of ending the relationship. Great, so you’ll feel stronger!
3 Surprise! You live in your happy world and one day your partner comes to get you out of your fantasies. The break takes you by surprise, you did not expect it at all and, truthfully, as a surprise is priceless. You’ll have a bad time for a few days, but in order to recover you better support your friends, those who are always there to offer you a shoulder where to cry.
4 What does she have that I do not have? Your boyfriend leaves because he has fallen in love with another or because he has returned with his ex. It is one of those breaks that leave you self-esteem for the floors, but quiet because everything comes out. The best therapy is to love yourself and stop whining. If he has gone with another is because he has not seen how good you have.
5 Whatsapp. They say that break is harder in the Instagram era and they say because some couples have no qualms about leaving you through a Whatsapp message or a comment on social networks. No repairs and no education. That you have not blocked or erased all of your social networks? Come on, you’re already late.
6 Slamming. There has been a good scolding, but it is not a discussion of another couple, because one of the two decides that until now we have arrived and ends the argument by slamming a door to never return. You do not like to discuss anything and what you experience creates anxiety, so that you too can slam and take away that bad taste, try to talk to him after a few days not to put a cruel point to that time together .
7 Planted. Have you ever been planted at some important event? Not necessarily in your own wedding, but reality sometimes surpasses fiction and if love is not like in movies, the heartbreak comes a lot more. You with your head high. That he has not presented himself to that appointment? Search your contacts for a friend and cover your plan. You will not waste an hour regretting it! Something else, butterfly.
8 Politically correct. This break starts with a ‘we have to talk’ and ends with a ‘we can be friends’. Needless to say, good forms can not always be maintained for long, but you have to try. You at the moment you hear the phrase, you become very dignified and jump, “I also wanted to talk to you.” It will!
9 High treason. That your boyfriend puts the horns on you is reason enough of rupture. An infidelity is a betrayal. An infidelity with your best friend, for example, is high treason and is unforgivable. This is perhaps the most complicated because when someone breaks your trust, you sink … Time will be the best antidote to forget what happened.
10 Neither with you nor without you. Traumatic rupture, intense reconciliation, traumatic rupture and restart. Couples who break and return in a spiral where it is impossible to find the emotional balance. If you know that it’s just a roll, great; But in a relationship of this type there is always one that wants more than another. If you are you, try to put distance as soon as possible because soon you will live some of the situations described above. It’s the whiting that bites its tail!
Have you experienced any of these breaks? You can tell us how your last partner left to calm you down.
