Are you thinking about getting married? Many couple relationships decide to take the step of marriage for several reasons.
And although this is not an irreversible decision and, in case of error you can rectify, it is still an important decision and you must take it seriously. We have some questions that you should ask yourself before you get married and you should answer honestly.
To marry is to go one step further in the relationship, although it is not obligatory. More and more people opt for coexistence as a climax to a stable and lasting relationship, but marriage is still fashionable and many people crave a wedding. We ask: Are you sure you want to get married? And we have some more questions.
1 Do you love him? It’s basic. The only motivation that should lead you to marriage is love, true love. Make sure you do not do it for convenience or for a passing fancy.
2 Does he love you? Also basic. Although you cannot measure the love of your partner, that is something that you notice, you feel. The person you marry, must love you with insanity, not think that you are the most appropriate person.
3 Are you compatible? In the time you are in relationship, you will have had to observe whether the incompatibilities that are always in a couple are bearable or insurmountable.
4 How are your discussions? The way you solve problems of the couple and the way you discuss are very revealing of the future of the relationship. Are they constructive or destructive discussions?
5 Does he respect you? You cannot take a step in the relationship if it does not respect you. We talk about respecting your way of being and not trying to change, and vice versa.
6 Do you value yourself? Besides loving your partner you have to value it. Do you feel valued by your partner? Because many times the relationship goes by inertia and you lose the true reasons why you fell in love.
7 Do you know their flaws? If before marriage you have passed through the gulp of coexistence as a couple, you are sure to have discovered all their shortcomings. Do you accept them? Are they tolerable?
8 Do you like your life? This question should be asked to verify that you are not idealizing your partner, that you like how it is and its customs, and that you do not expect to be radically transformed after the wedding.
