About 84% of people have ever tried to make their partner jealous. Sound too high a number?
Think of yourself and all the couples you meet around you.
If you’ve ever fooled around with someone, talked about your ex, or even made up an old partner, you’ve tried to make your partner jealous, even if you did it without realizing it.
To believe that jealousy fuels passion is silly; If there is something that makes a couple happy and keeps them together, it is knowing that you can trust them and that you will do everything in your power to make them happy.
If you want to have a happy, healthy and lasting relationship, you better stop:
1. Tell him what you did in your past relationships (he may think you are comparing him)
2. Talk about your ex to other people in front of him (he may feel slighted)
3. Tell him about your exes (he may feel rejected)
4. Compare him to your ex (he may feel like he’s not good enough for you)
5. Tell him that there are other boys interested in you (he may think that you do not value him)
6. Make up or exaggerate stories about the intentions of your coworkers (may feel disrespected)
7. Make up or exaggerate stories about your friends’ intentions (may feel disrespected)
8. Every time someone flirts with you, you tell them to see their reaction (they may think that you don’t care about their emotions)
9. When someone seems attractive, you tell them to see their reaction.
10. You flirt with other people in front of him.
11. You talk about your past sexual relationships.
12. You compare him to your previous lovers.
13. You tell him about the strong emotional connections you have had with other people.
14. You lie to him telling him that there are other people interested in having a relationship with you.
15. You lie to him saying that there are other people who are sexually interested in you.
16. You keep reminding him how much fun you have without him.
17. You keep telling him that his friends are nicer and funnier than he is.
18. You pretend you have secrets and things to hide
People who seek to make their partner jealous is because they have problems with self-esteem and confidence, but not with respect to their partner, but with respect to themselves. Care for
Making your partner jealous is not a good way to be happy or to make him happy. What he wants is to feel good, and this behavior you have is not the solution.
Think about how you treat him, and if you would like him to do the same to you. Would you be with someone like that? Do everything that brings you closer to having a healthy and happy relationship, which is what you deserve.
