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These are the most common discussions that most couples have. It is a list of the things that most couples fight over and how to settle the matter forever. And ofcourse Goodbye dramas, hello love.
Discussions about sex
The problem is almost always the same: the difference between the libido of both. There is usually one who wants more than the other and is therefore unsatisfied. But despite his discomfort, there is no discussion about it.
Outcome? Anger builds up and is skipped over any nonsense. Anger then tends to be expressed passively-aggressively, through sarcastic teasing or complaining about petty matters.
He talks about it. If you want more sex, say so. If you want more oral sex, say so. Etc. Theirs, according to the expert, is to start the conversation with a question like this: “Honey, would you like us to do it more often?
Do you want to try something new? Would you like to change something about our sexual encounters? “
The other will answer. And that’s when you can give your opinion and express your complaints, always in a relaxed way.
Discussions about social networks
Before social media existed, jealous people ‘watched’ people who knew their partners, who they were dating, etc. Now, this ‘obsession’ is extended to the filtering of the other’s social networks.
Jealousy and networks get along badly. We recommend that you do what you want in your profiles as long as you do not harm your partner.
The basic rules must be established on the behavior of both in the network. “Some decide to have complete transparency, sharing passwords and everything; others, on the other hand, do not want to know or see what their partner is doing on the networks
Discussions about past infidelities
If either of you was unfaithful in the past, surely you are still arguing about it today, even if more than ten years have passed. It is the typical unclosed problem that always comes up in any discussion.
Being cheated on hurts: you may have forgiven, but you haven’t forgotten. Past wounds caused by infidelity are often further infected by other added problems.
If you want to continue with your partner, leave the subject now or make a decision: either forgive it and continue, or end the relationship. You cannot live like this.
Asking the questions you always wanted to ask and getting honest answers. If this seems unfeasible, consult a therapist.
Discussions about household chores
Progress has been made, but women continue to do most of the housework. “The blame for this does not fall directly on the men, but on the fact that the women also act as mothers for their partners (they clean what they have cleaned, they make food for them …)”.
Have a better sex. You may wonder what it has to do
“Men who do more housework and get involved with boys have a better sex life and happier relationships than those who don’t.”
Preparing a task list and putting it in the fridge. Chores should be divided according to what one or the other prefers to do.
