It has happened to all of us that before a sexual encounter we are more concerned about how we will look than about what is really important: enjoy. There are several mistakes in intimacy that you should avoid since, in addition to not capturing your partner, they could trigger problems in your relationship.
Being honest, among women we complain if a man did not perform well or is a bad lover, but it is also fair that you ask yourself how he feels, what he wants or what his expectations are during the sexual encounter.
You don’t take the initiative
This is one of the typical mistakes in privacy . If you expect him to do all the movements, he will most likely end up getting annoyed. Many men like to feel dominated. Surprise your partner with new positions, set the pace yourself and make him experience new sensations.
You avoid talking about what you like in privacy
Despite a man having experience, every woman is different and they don’t have to know what you enjoy the most. They love to know everything that excites you, the points that you like the most to be touched and the postures that give you the most pleasure.
You stay quiet
Nor is it that you scream as if you were Tarzan, but what it is about here is that you do not remain silent during the entire act. Let your partner enjoy your pleasure and let him feel that he is making you enjoy. This will motivate him to continue stimulating you.
You feel sorry
Leaving the light off sometimes is exciting, but always? Forget this! If men love something, it’s seeing your body: it doesn’t matter if you’ve gained weight or don’t feel like you have a model figure. Put aside the shame and dare to fully enjoy this encounter.
You avoid trying new things
Monotony is the worst thing that can happen in sex. Innovate, surprise with new positions, new toys or sexy lingerie.
