Legend has it that your partner and you used to spend whole weekends without getting out of bed and you were not exactly sleeping. The relationships of couples have to face periods of passionless emptiness that can have serious consequences for the future of the relationship.
That is why we are wondering why the desire disappears as a couple and how we can recover it.
Reasons why the desire as a couple fades
1. Coexistence. Coexistence is possible if you know how. Generally we blame all the problems of couple to the coexistence and it may not be fair, but it is true that now that you live together you do not have so much desire. Why will it be?
2. Stress. You go out to work, you go to the supermarket, you put on a washing machine, you call your mother, you cook dinner, and what’s the use of your yoga class? If you are eating the daily stress and when you stop all you want is to lie on the couch and vegetate until the next day, as for a revolcón!
3. Children. When we do not blame the coexistence, we look at the children. Children change your life, of course. But if on the one hand you lose intimacy as a couple, on the other hand you can gain in sexual creativity and take advantage of places and moments that never before crossed your mind.
4. Age. This with 25 years did not happen to you, neither do you, but now your head hurts, your neck is broken and contractures do not let you relax. And your couple? He no longer serves the excuse of ‘I swear to you that it has never happened to me before’ because you have witnessed some other downturn.
5. Lack of communication. Does your partner really know what you like in bed? Because if you do not tell him, he will not be able to guess. Good lovers are not born, they are made, with lots of practice and lots of communication so that everyone knows what the other likes.
6. Lack of love. There are times when desire vanishes for the simple reason that it has run away with love. There is no love between you, perhaps there was before, but not now. And here we can do nothing to recover what was lost.
