Cinema has portrayed a thousand and one times when marriages do not go as planned. Surely you bit your nails watching Bachelorette Party just thinking that something like this happened to your precious wedding dress or you died of anxiety imagining that, as in Bride War, your guests received another wedding card with the same date than yours.
Quiet! These harrowing and comical stories are not only fictional but ultimately leave you with a valuable lesson: everything has a solution. So although it is normal for you to think that the supplier of your wedding room decoration it will disappear suddenly, it is not recommended that you fill yourself with unfounded fears and forget what is really important: live in the moment and enjoy this journey on the way to the altar.
1. Fear of not being able to control everything
You took the trouble to carefully review the list of providers for those wedding centerpieces and choose not only the one that offered exactly what you wanted, but also had a good insurance policy. Still, there is that part of you that thinks that they will not arrive at the time they agreed or that it will be something different from what they agreed to. Just relax! Rest assured that you did everything that was on your part to make things go well and the only thing that is in your hands now is to trust and wait. It is impossible for you to have control over everything and this extra stress is only going to affect your mental health.
2. Fear of forgetting everything
Maybe you planned some special wedding vows, full of boyfriend phrases and you have taken the task of learning them before day B. Your nerves are playing a trick on you and you feel that you will not be able to say them in front of everyone or you will they will forget, calm down! Visualize that at that moment you are alone with your fiancé or, if you feel more comfortable, change the public speech for a private one. The main thing is that you do not demand yourself and you can enjoy the moments of your celebration.
3. Fear that no one will attend
Do you really think anyone will be able to resist after looking at your original wedding cards? Most likely, loved ones who truly love you and your partner will die from witnessing your exchange of gold wedding rings.
4. Fear of falling
The most common fear of any bride: not being able to control the 2021 wedding dress well and getting tangled out of the car, or tripping on the way to the altar. One of the things you can do is practice with the shoes that you will wear on day B and a skirt similar to the one in your dress (or the complete outfit if you have it) so that you will have more confidence and learn to master Item . In the worst case, if you fall in your marriage, even if at first it seems the worst in the world, it is most likely that it will become your favorite wedding anecdote.
5. Fear that the photos will not turn out well
In the world of social media, where having the perfect photo seems the most important thing in any event, you may be scared that you won’t get that snapshot worth sharing. However, in many cases the best things are the ones that are not planned. Make sure you enjoy your day and for sure, if you hired a good professional, you can capture an unsuspecting moment that stands out from other posed snapshots. The important thing about photos is to capture the moment.
6. Fear of unwell dawn
Although many times there are diseases that cannot be avoided, what is in your hands is to maintain a healthy routine before marriage. Try to eat a balanced diet, do a little exercise or yoga and, above all, don’t think too much. Excess stress can somatize other symptoms that do not allow you to enjoy the wedding.
7. Fear of having a bad day
Although many would like to have that super power, it is impossible to control the weather. As much as meteorologists help predict behavior, anything can happen. In this case, rather than being afraid, it is best to have an ace up your sleeve. If you are going to celebrate a wedding outdoors, hire reserve tents, have umbrellas, towels or other items on hand to help protect you from the rain.
