Let’s be honest. Most couples work because they don’t tell each other what they think. Living under the same roof has its good things, but also many bad ones.
You have to adapt to your sentimental partner, her hobbies, her schedules .
And that is not a tasteful dish for many. Both they and them, to avoid an argument (or dozens during the day), remain silent and do what their peers want. Although there is a lot of material to cut on this topic, today we will talk about men.
Of all that they want to say to his girlfriend every day but they silence, however much they may regret it.
1) Sometimes I want to be ALONE
Men need their space. Yes, they love helping you with shopping, folding shirts and running errands. But after all this, they want and need a few minutes or hours to be with themselves.
Reading, watching TV, talking to colleagues on mobile, answering emails, or simply spending time in their silent solitude. It is a psychological need that women have to respect.
2) Pay more attention to me than to the children
When the children get home, everything changes. The priorities are different and focus on them.
All the mother’s attention will go to her small shoots, inevitably displacing the man to the second or third plane. She may even lose sexual interest in her partner over a period of time.
And not only that, but all the free time she has she prefers to spend with her beloved children than with her husband, whom months ago she filled with pampering and attention.
3) Honey, you have put on weight
Is a delicate topic. You can perfectly recognize a married man by the curve of his belly, and a married woman by the size of their holsters.
Saying it is not politically correct, but it is so. And no member of the couple likes to see how her sweetheart is left, and she gains kilos per year that she spends next to her.
Love is like that, friends. You relax, someone loves you and makes love to you. You withdraw from the demanding sex market. We are all aware of it, and men too.
They’d love to tell their wives how much they’ve put on weight since they said yes, but they don’t dare. Verbalizing that is synonymous with divorce.
They know it and that’s why they keep quiet. They say “No darling, you haven’t taken a gram, you’re great” when they really mean “Well yes love, you’ve widened; in fact those pants don’t even close you; you’re going to explode . “
4) That you tell me more what you love me
The magic of love fades in proportion to the years of living together. He is no longer so attentive or so loving. And that weighs on men. Although they may seem so male and male, they need their partners to show them everything they love.
And not only not abandoning them, but with words. The ‘I love you’ that used to be repeated throughout the day, have been reduced to special occasions, which makes them feel undervalued.
5) I would like you to be more direct
Men and women live together and talk, but that does not mean they understand each other. The channel through which the message circulates is not the same for both sexes, which greatly complicates understanding.
Added to all this, it is worth the stereotype, that they never understand what she means (which does not mean that it is what she is really verbalizing).
Although they seem very sure of themselves and their manhood, they should be encouraged.
6) I’m worried about stopping you from getting excited
Although they seem very sure of themselves and their manhood, they should be encouraged. They have to feel that they keep making their wives very hot. It is something tremendously important, because if the male of the couple feels that his wife is not attracted to him, he can go out and find a lover (usually younger) who reminds him that in addition to father and husband he is still a man , with all those of law.
7) Stop correcting me and removing defects
Sometimes women don’t filter and are too direct with their partners. It is worth that they are clumsy on many occasions, but the “leave it, I’ll do it” undermines their morale and makes them feel bad.
The male ego is like this. Men like to feel useful. If they are, for example, hanging clothes, they don’t want their wife to tell them: “I’ve seen them faster” or “Don’t put the clothespin there, you’re stupid!”
In the face of these (usually deserved) ‘attacks’ they don’t answer and swallow their anger, when in reality they would like to say: “Damn, stop flaming me. I’m trying, okay?”
8) That you hug me and take care of me
The signs of affection are conspicuous by their absence in a couple who have been married for years. They come to their better half every day, at all hours, so the magic is lost, especially in their case.
Females stop pampering their husbands, and they notice it. They get closer to them hoping that it is reciprocal
Right now they would love to shout “You don’t even touch me anymore!”, But they don’t and get frustrated.
