Trust, respect, knowing the basic needs of the couple, their fears and accepting themselves as they are, are part of the characteristics of a healthy relationship . However, 40% of lovers fall into codependency problems , which come to ruin love.
For a relationship to be healthy, you first have to have the ability to be with someone, without suffering for him. In addition to a certain predisposition to resignation, nothing is forever and knowing it will help you to be at peace in love
If you are starting a relationship or are already in it, there are certain characteristics that you must promote in order for it to be healthy. We share them with you
1. Responsibility
Each one must accept that they are responsible for their actions, if they are wrong, admit it without creating conflicts . Keep your promises as long as you can and avoid excuses.
2. Negotiation and impartiality
They have to find solutions to conflicts that are satisfactory for both of them. Dialogue, be empathetic and listen to the opinion of the other before making decisions.
3. Economic society
As part of the commitment, it is vital that the economic expenses and investments are agreed, the purpose is to ensure that both earn money and security in the same way .
4. Power sharing
Although each has equality in the relationship, it is inevitable that some will dominate. Still they must share that power and give in when it is the best option. Remember that your mission is to be happy and make your partner happy.
5. Freedom and communication
Both must encourage their partner to have the confidence and freedom to express themselves about what they want and do not want, without fear of the reaction. To do this, work on understanding.
6. Physical affection
The kisses , hugs, lean on the shoulder of your partner are small acts that provide basis for relationship . Agree up front if you both like this, you will practice it, or you will put it aside.
7. Individual integrity
As individuals they must be able to maintain their beliefs and personality , as well as invest effort in the relationship without losing themselves. Being together does not mean that they should be neglected as people.
8. Valuation of the couple
Find and create opportunities to remind each other of how valuable you are, with details and words. Always respect what makes you different, accept and love each other as you are.
The routine is something that also ends with couples, to break it go out on double dates. A Wayne State University study claims that doing so helps rekindle passion. They also reinforce your commitment and can foster a healthier relationship .
