Cheating is a demon that many couples have to fight with. Women tend to be quite good pretenders when they are cheating and it would be easy for them to hide the cheating aspect since they are quite careful and keen to the smallest thing. However, I can’t say the same about men. Truth be told, the male specie was not designed to remember the smallest things nor are they ‘multi-taskers’ like women. Therefore, when they start cheating, there are signs which most women tend to choose not to see even when they are being flashed right in front of their eyes for fear of having hearts being broken. A woman’s intuition is also something that you should not ignore. If you feel he is cheating, girl, its time you got keen and read the signs.
You just might save your relationship before it gets out of hand. Here are signs that you should watch out for;
1. Being secretive with his phone
Don’t get me wrong. Everyone is entitled to their privacy. However, if at first he did not have a problem picking his calls or responding to texts when you are around or his phone was usually on sight and all of a sudden he wants to keep it on lock down when you are together, then something is wrong. He may put passwords on his Apps such as messengers to avoid you getting access to them. This should be a red flag that something is up his sleeves.
2. Grooming has become better suddenly
Do you remember how he used to groom when you started dating? How he used to put on that aftershave that you love so much? After he hooked you up, he paid less attention and the habit starts happening all of a sudden. He becomes very keen on what to wear and he even asks you how he looks. Does he return home smelling sweet perfumes and he looks different from when he left? Girl, that’s a cheater right there!
3. He is always defensive
One thing about a cheating spouse is that he will always get defensive when confronted about something. When you ask him why his phone was switched off at a certain time or your calls went unanswered, he will jump down your throat trying to defend himself and will start saying that you are bugging him.
4. Financial infidelity
Do you have a shared account or you are getting constantly on debt and the bills are getting late to be paid? Are you noticing unexplained charges to the account? The probability that he is spending his money on another woman is very high.
