Rejection, indifference or disappearance are aspects of relationships or relationships that we do not know very well how to manage. But we must learn to assume, for example, that this man is not going to call you again. And we must overcome it without dramas.
You have to admit that you will not be calling again
Generally, your self-esteem does not suffer when the next morning you go to bed with a stranger, he leaves your house and you never know him again. No courtesy message so you know how good it has been, or anything at all. And you so calm, because you were not expecting a declaration of love. The problem is when you’ve been with that man for a while.
What comes to be called a roll, that is not your boyfriend, nor your friend, nor your friend and something else. He is a man with whom you have occasional sex, who sometimes sends you messages to keep a minimum of contact and that suddenly one day does not answer the Whatsapp, does not return the calls and disappears from your life without more.
You need an explanation, of course. That it is not necessary that you have promised to be educated even in farewell. Time passes, he does not call you back, he does not answer the phone and you are sure that you will never see him again. You know it but you do not accept it. And you do not accept it because you lack an explanation. You also know that you are no longer interested and you do not accept it because the acts of faith are not your thing and you are still searching for an explanation.
You have to accept that he will not call you
We are with you in need of an explanation. Why did not he call you back? However, our experience of love tells us that such unexplained ghosting or disappearance occurs at all levels of relationships, from marriages to one-night stands. Therefore, this new trend that is equivalent to the old ‘went to tobacco and did not return’ you must accept it without further ado.
Can that be done? It can, it costs but it can. If he has not called you back, if he has not considered it necessary to put an end to your meetings, or say goodbye, or say that you do not like him anymore, he is not only a coward, he wants to keep an open door. What if one day you do not have a better plan and you call back to check how things are? A toxic person’s red alert that can make you dizzy to infinity or until you leave.
Don’t let you. He does not call you, do not call him. He does not give you explanations, do not look for them. You will not feel better because that man tells you that he has met another girl who likes him better than you or does not fill him enough. To remain without explanation sometimes is much better to keep the self-esteem intact and to place that man in the sack of the men to avoid or to send it directly to oblivion
