Controversial media personality and masculinity coach Andrew Kibe has sparked debate after admitting that he stayed in his mother’s house until he was nearly 30, a decision he now regrets. Kibe, known for his outspoken views on masculinity and self-reliance, revealed that his late departure from home significantly delayed his journey to personal independence.
Kibe’s Late Move Out
Speaking in an interview with Utata Entertainment, Kibe acknowledged that he remained dependent on his mother well into adulthood. He attributed his delayed move to the absence of a strong father figure, noting that while his mother did her best, her efforts alone were not enough to accelerate his growth into manhood.
“At my age, I have learned a lot. I used to be dependent on my mother. As time went by, I started gaining my independence, but I moved out very late. It was so late that I’m even embarrassed to talk about it because I was almost 30,” Kibe admitted.
The Impact of a Missing Father Figure
Kibe explained that growing up without a strong paternal influence left him unprepared for the responsibilities of adulthood. “I wasn’t a man because my dad did not play his part. My mum did hers. I had to forgive them for that, knowing they did their best. But now, I had to build myself, and it has taken me a long time to become this person. I am just turning 20 years in the road of discovery,” he said.
Advocating for Early Independence
Despite his own experience, Kibe has consistently urged young men to leave their parents’ homes early and seek financial and personal independence. He emphasized that staying under parental care for too long fosters dependency and delays crucial life lessons. He admitted that in the past, he made numerous excuses to justify staying at home, something he now sees as a weak trait.
Public Reactions
Kibe’s revelation has sparked mixed reactions, with many people weighing in on when it is the right time for young adults to move out. While some agreed with him, others argued that financial stability should be the main factor in deciding when to leave home.
Titus Kigen stated, “As soon as one is able to fend for himself/herself, parents should let go of their children to soar and figure out the world by themselves.”
On the other hand, Moses Ochieng countered, “It’s not a bad thing to move out of your parents’ house, but before you move out, ensure that you have a stable job to cater for all your needs. Don’t just move out because you’re old enough; move because you’re stable and can fully support yourself.”
Andrew Kibe’s admission has ignited an important conversation on financial independence, masculinity, and the role of parents in preparing their children for the real world. While his late move out of his mother’s house was a personal regret, his advice to young men remains clear—gain independence early and take charge of your life before it’s too late.
