We recently learned that relationships are not forever as we learned in children’s stories and as we remembered romantic movies. Many couples break up and what we ask ourselves is how to break up with your partner in an elegant way, if that is possible.
There is a way to break your partner elegantly
We have sought among the thousand and one excuses to break and we have not liked any. We have also investigated between methods of rupture and each one that we find seems worse and more traumatic. How do you leave a person harmless? There is no way. What is there is a way to break elegantly, but a requirement has to be met.
The requirement for an elegant break is that you are both in the same sentimental point, ie that regardless of whether you are the one making the decision to break, your partner is aware that it is the best option. Good because the love is over, either because the inertia has overcome you or because you have both realized that your relationship is not what you expected.
Obviously this situation of consensus is little, but sometimes occurs. Hence arise those few couples that get to be friends after the break and from there also arises that myth of civilized ruptures that you may never have lived. But if there is no such prerequisite there is no way to do it elegantly.
Remember that just because you see that you will not be able to break elegantly you should not remain in a relationship for pain or fear of the pain you are going to produce and suffer. If the break is not elegant, you will suffer both, no matter if you leave or leave you. So test the terrain and if you see your partner in the same situation as you, it’s time to have the definitive conversation.
