Willis Raburu has shared the emotional weight he carried after losing his daughter Adana at birth. He said it was the lowest point of his life. He spoke on Sauti Sessions with Ian Wafula and Ciru Muriuki and explained how the tragedy pushed him into a period of deep struggle. He expected sympathy, but instead faced judgment from social media users.
Raburu said people hid behind screens and used the chance to be cruel. He returned to work to host 10 Over 10, yet many claimed that his daughter’s death was a punishment. He said others criticised the show and accused him of misleading young people. The comments came at a time when he was still trying to understand his loss.
He said criticism continued when viewers saw him hyping the show. He said people assumed he had moved on and did not care about his family. He explained that the job required energy, yet behind the scenes he was struggling. He said he cried in his car before each show and cried again after leaving the stage. He said he turned to alcohol to escape the pain.
Raburu admitted that the pressure and the grief pushed him into dark thoughts. He said he felt overwhelmed and questioned whether he wanted to keep going. He said he even thought about joining his daughter. He described that moment as one of the hardest he has ever faced.
He said he wishes people were more mindful. He said words can harm someone who is already carrying a heavy burden. He said many people judge without knowing the truth.
Kenyans shared messages of support after hearing his story. Some thanked him for speaking openly. Others offered comfort and wished him healing. Many agreed that no one deserves cruelty when facing loss.
Raburu’s story shows how public pressure and online comments can affect someone who is grieving. It shows the importance of compassion and awareness when responding to people who are hurting.
