Kenya is officially a cheating nation. Cheats on the loose… Every man seems to be dying to have a side dish better known as mpango wa kando. The sun hardly sets before clips of men and women caught romping illegally flood the media. In recent days, though a bad precedent, men are mutilating their manhood because of unfaithful partners. Things are just but getting worse. Kuchipoliwa is becoming a culture. Morality is no longer an issue. The very fabrics that held Kenyan marriages are no more. People are materialistic. Men and women are now champions of lust. Why are Kenyan ladies cheating on their equally unfaithful men? Here are signs to tell you that she is surely and seriously cheating on you.
You are boring to her. Have you noticed how your woman has lost interest in you? She is no longer interested in you. She sees you like a pig’s fecal matter. If this is you, buda, then chances are she is seeing someone somewhere. The other guy is just better than you, at least according to her. You are her side dish.
She is extra busy. Is your lady too busy for you? Well, we are in a generation of career women. But is she extra busy to turn down your surprise dinner? Is she unavailable to dine and have fun? If she is creating excuses for you request then know she is dining somewhere else
She is on late night chats. She chats and receives calls during wee hours of the night when you are supposed to be cuddling. She can afford to make calls under the blanket to anonymous clients yet she does not work with fire brigade. Wake up dude! Chances are another man is calling her. Take your time to find out who is calling her.
She has classy panties she never had before. DO not just admire her lingerie. If she is just accumulating new inner wears and clothes at an alarming rate, think twice. Another moneyed could be behind your wife’s latest pants and is probably pulling them down soon.
She is overly private. Is your woman’s phone too private that she cannot even stay without a password? Raise a red flag. Why should she protect her messages? What kind of photos is she storing with PIN security? Act now!
Strange friends. How is she behaving lately? Does she receive calls and talk about new and charming friends, classmate or co-worker? Who are these new male friends she is accumulating like Bonga points? Confront her with manly wisdom and see if she blushes or gets offended. If she does, be sure she got someone taking her to cloud 9.
No sex anymore. When did you last do it? Are you dying to have your woman? If she is always bringing up excuses and literally denying you that honey pot, someone is fixing her. It could even be that taxi guy or watchie at the gate.
Her phone is on always on silent mode. You wonder why people are not calling her when you are around. May be her phone is on silent mode and she does not want you to know when it is ringing. Another possible scenario is that she may have instructed her new catch to call specific times when you are away. Do not just be happy that no one calls your wife. You are a fool!
She takes time to reply your texts. How long does it take to reply a text? Is she replying after some minutes or even after hours? Chances are she is no longer interested in you and maybe she is seeing someone.
She calls you by another man’s name. Has your woman ever called you another man’s name by mistake in bed? Is she calling on the name of her boss when she is coming? It is the surest evidence she is a cheat. Regardless of the sweetness, no other man’s should come out of her mouth.
