To make things simple, teach them grace and kindness in all things and treat them the way you would want them to be treated.
And this is the what to avoid if you are a new parent wanting to see happy kids grow up responsibly .
1. Avoid Giving your child everything he asks for. He will grow up believing that he has the right to get everything he wants.
2. Avoid laughing when your child speaks insulting words. He will grow up thinking that disrespect is entertainment.
3. Avoid remaining insensitive to bad behavior that he can display without scolding him for his bad behavior. He will grow up thinking that there are no rules in society.
4. Avoid picking up anything that your child messes up. He will grow up believing that others must take responsibility for his responsibilities.
5. Avoid letting him watch any program on TV. He will grow up thinking that there is no difference between being a child and being an adult.
6. Avoid giving your child all the money he asks for. He will grow up thinking that getting money is easy and will not hesitate to steal for it.
7. Always avoid putting yourself on his side when he is wrong against the neighbors, his teachers, the police. He will grow up thinking that everything he does is right, it is the others who are wrong.
8. Avoid leaving him alone at home when you go to the place of worship, otherwise he will grow up thinking that God does not exist.
9. Avoid talking down about a family member or spouse it will teach them to hurt others and that conflict and hurting others is okay.
10. Avoid showing them that not helping others in need is ok it will give them lack in grace.
