So happy is your sister with your new relationship that you do not even dare to ask, right? But there are things in your attitude that do not fit you, they smell bad. Your instinct and your sense of smell are allied to realize that your sister has a toxic relationship, but before doing anything you have to make sure.
Signs that your sister is in a toxic relationship
What does not fit into your sister’s new partner? Do not be fooled because you see her happy and why not shed a tear, because there are toxic relationships that do not make you cry until it is too late. Follow your instinct and check these signs that your sister has a toxic love.
1 Distance. You no longer stay to go out, to run, to go shopping or to eat, and your mother does not even remember the last time she called home. It is normal that you focus all your time, your interest and your desire on that person when you fall in love, but it is not normal to keep that distance for a long time.
2 Alone. How long have you not seen your sister alone? It always comes from the hand of her boyfriend and they look like a happy couple, the truth, but they do not leave their own space is to suspect.
3 It is monothematic. The few times you get to see your sister alone has only one topic of conversation: her boyfriend. His love, his ideal man, his object of desire: what he does, what he says, what he thinks, all of it!
4 Your smile. You could not swear that your sister has problems because you see her smile very often, yes, the reason for your smile is your partner. He does not smile for anything else.
5 The way you talk. One day your sister comes home and tells you something, anything insignificant that makes all your alarms sound. That phrase is not his own, that language is not his, his speech is made by another person, and you know by whom.
6 Your way of dressing. Your sister has gone shopping and left the card quivering. I would not miss anything if it were not because his style has changed radically. Need to be impressed or influenced by someone?
7 A new sister. Who are you and what have you done to my sister? You do not recognize your sister with so many changes. She insists that she is happy and you can not do anything, but clearly she is not herself and she has lost her personality.
8 Your mobile phone. Addiction to the mobile phone takes on a new dimension when it comes to your sister. Always available for his love, always pending his messages and his calls, always there, with the mobile in hand.
9 Your defense. And if you think of alerting your sister to her worrying obsession with her partner … the storm falls immediately accusing you of being envious or that you do not like to see her happy.
10 Your self-esteem. Your sister’s self-esteem plummets. She is more insecure, more hesitant, more uneasy with the world around her. Its stability depends on it and we already know the risks involved.
