Everyone wants to find that special someone. A person where we can say, “You’re the one.” In other words, our soulmate.
1. You have a Choice
From the moment we are born we are taught to have a plan for everything important in life – except love.
With love we have been taught that it’s up to destiny or fate to find “The One.”Soulmate love is a choice. Do we only have one soulmate?
NO. Connecting with your soulmate is more about creating a selection process that serves you to identify a good match for you than it is relying on destiny.
2. Soul Contract vs. Soulmate
A soul contract can be played out in the dark or in the light. When you have a soul contract with another person they will only stay in your life until the contract is complete.
On the other hand, a true soul partnership is where two people go into a relationship consciously to better themselves as individuals. In a true soul partnership both individuals have made the commitment to choose each other.
You cannot do or say the wrong thing with your soulmate. The two of you will always find ways to navigate through challenges and conflicts together.
3. The Other Person Is Not You
This is the key to a successful relationship. It’s too easy, and all too common, for us to point the finger at our partner and think that they are the problem.
The spark of attraction is created from the differences, and yet at some point we think that if our partner is more like us we could get along so much better.
Your partner becomes a fun-house mirror and it can often be difficult to recognize ourselves because the image is distorted.
As close as you may be, and regardless of how much love there is between you – you and your partner are two different people.
You have different beliefs, past experiences, and mental/emotional patterns. Your soulmate will not be just like you – they will compliment you
