You are teaching your partner to look for an alternative, and trust me, they will, and soon they’ll not need you again. Conflict isn’t always the problem, but how a Person chooses to Handle their conflict.
4 IMMATURE WAYS OF HANDLING DISAGREEMENTS
1) CRYING
Tears do not solve a matter. They only make your partner feel guilty even if they’re not wrong, feel bad, most likely they’ll start petting you, offer you a bribe, drop the issue, probably that’s what you wanted, but remember, the issue hasn’t been solved.
But it’s childish to keep using this approach whenever things get heated up, whether you’re right or wrong. Your partner will come to see you as a crybaby, and no body likes a crybaby.
2) GUILT TRIPPING
An issue is being addressed, and your next line of approach is to guilt trip your partner “so are you saying I’m wicked” “so you hate me this much?” “it’s okay, I can see I’m the problem, thank you,”
Implying and Saying things they didn’t imply or say. Just to make them feel guilty. This may be effective initially, but like crying, it has a very short life span and only makes your partner start resenting dating/marrying you
3) STONE WALLING
There’s a disagreement, you stop taking his/her calls. You move into another room, You refuse to talk about the issue even when they are seeking a reconciliation.
You’ll drive a nail into the heart of your Relationship/Marriage and kill it doing this regularly. Malice is another kind of stone walling. If after every argument, you need 1 week to start actively talking to your partner again, then you need to grow up.
4) DENIALS
So there’s a disagreement, and you start withdrawing the privileges your partner enjoys
You stop cooking for your husband. You deny your husband sex
You withdraw financial assistance from him/her. By doing this, many have pushed their partners into an affair, adultery, and lost valuable life partners. You’ll make your partner begin to resent that assistance because they know you’ll use it as a means to punish them the next time you disagree.
