Looking for the perfect relationship can spoil everything. Thinking more than necessary, giving extreme importance to insignificant comments or asking opinions of friends that will not make your mind more cloudy.
For this reason, below I tell you 8 secrets that will help you achieve a perfect relationship with your partner. Attentive:
1. Love yourself
As you sit, that’s how they’ll see you. What is easy?
If you love yourself, and you say it (or show it to yourself), you will see how the love you project, you will feel towards yourself, for the people around you.
2. Don’t be Proud
A relationship has 3 fundamental pillars: commitment, sacrifice and resistance. For these pillars to stand firm, your pride must take a backseat.
Because when it comes to relationships, being proud DOES NOT DO ANYTHING.
3. Out the toxicity
Get away from bad thoughts, emotions that hurt you, memories that make you suffer, resentments from the past … Because all this creates a sphere of tension and coldness, within the couple, that makes the relationship not work.
4. Remove external influences
Sometimes, the comments of your mother, your friends or your colleagues, can cloud a thought or make a grain of sand a mountain, and that “they only wanted the best for you.”
Everyone has an opinion, and not only this, but they think yours is correct. N or ask, all the answers are within you.
5. Do not want to change the other
The vast majority of humans think that the person with whom we share life and home will one day change for us those little defects that put your nerves on edge and that he / she thinks the most normal thing in the world. I tell you from now on: forget it!
You cannot wait your whole life for another person to change for you, things that perhaps you would not change for him / her; And yes, you would change certain things, very bad for you.
You have to adapt as much as possible to the other person and love them as they are, with their defects and their virtues, as you like them to do with you, right?
6. Create intimacy
As time passes, the excitement of the relationship may dissipate and boredom begins to flood the foundations, but if you love the other person, you have to work on this every day.
Sit with him / her, talk, understand each other with your eyes, learn their way of acting…. That way you will know when she needs a hug, a word of support, or an encouraging kiss.
7. Don’t criticize their flaws
Because nobody likes to be reminded of them, so think that your partner will not be very happy about you. And much less in public.
The weak points are always more visible than the strong ones, so if you highlight them, you are giving him / her to understand that you give more importance to the bad than to the good, and that may feel worse than what he / she can give you. to understand.
8. The beauty of simplicity
Because although we all want to turn our relationship into an empire, we have to go step by step, little by little.
Focus on simplicity and go calmly. Value silences, kisses, smiles, hugs …
The perfect couple is the one that has a multitude of flaws and yet they still respect, love and understand each other.