This doesn’t make either of you right or wrong—just different. Now that I’ve given you a list of things you need to know, let me inject two disclaimers. The first is that it is not enough for you to just read this; you must apply this information.
The second disclaimer is that not all women are created alike. While most of these ideas will work great, your wife will have unique ways she needs to be loved. You need to discover these.
- Your wife needs you to be the spiritual leader of your home.
- Your wife needs you to be her teammate in raising the kids and taking care of the home.
- Your wife needs you to treat her like a princess.
- Your wife needs you to communicate with her.
- Your wife needs her friends and needs you to allow her time
with the girls, but ultimately she wants you to be her best friend. - Your wife needs you to be a “triple A” encourager by giving her appreciation, affirmation, and admiration.
- Your wife needs to feel emotionally filled before she desires to be sexually involved.
- Your wife needs you to understand that there are some things you will never understand.
