It is inevitable to analyze the role of new technologies in relationships. Sometimes allies and other times enemy to the death of love, you have to be very careful with some applications that the devil charges.
These are some things that kill a relationship by Whatsapp. Watch out for the mobile phone.
Behaviors in Whatsapp That Kill a Relationship
Instant messaging applications arise, in principle, to facilitate communication, not only between couples, but in all types of relationships. But its benefits can be turned into weapons against love if we do not use it correctly.
1 Too many Whatsapp. Surely it makes you very excited that your partner says ‘I love you’ in a morning Whatsapp, that you miss or anything. But if you send 30 messages throughout the morning, you may end up saturating yourself with so much love and attention.
2 Few Whatsapp. But not so much or so bald, because that boyfriend who does not deign to send you a Whatsapp to see how the day, which only sends you in cases of urgency and for very specific matters, makes you think that he does not remember you in All day and you feel that you do not care for the relationship or that you are unattended.
3 Sexting. It is the order of the day to send messages of festive erotic content or what is called sexting. But you have to be careful in what moment of the relationship you are to send this type of messages. If the relationship is starting, perhaps you should wait for a little more confidence.
4 Seen and not seen. The worst enemy of self-esteem is double blue check and silence. You have sent him a Whatsapp, he has read it and he has not answered you. The attitude is popularly known as ‘leave you in sight’ and, if anyone did not know, it is a bad education.
5 Brief answer. Almost worse than not answering the Whatsapp or that you leave in visa is that to a parrafada yours, your partner answers you with an ‘ok’ or with a sad smiley that indicates that it has received your message.
6 Exclusive dedication. Your partner has a passion for Whatsapp, so much so that in your appointments instead of paying attention to you, he is dedicated exclusively to Whatsapear with his friends. And he laughs, and he’s having a great time.
7 Chats deleted. You’re not the one gossiping on your partner’s cell phone, but he’s doing it in front of you. You do not see the contact, you do not see the conversation, but you see clearly that you are deleting a chat. What a suspect, right?
8 Whatsapp videos. One of the worst inventions derived from Whatsapp is the indiscriminate sending of videos. Videos that neither you nor you come but that your partner observes attentively during the minutes that it is necessary. And he tells you to see them and if you say no, he sends them back to you. And while you trying to keep your partner away from that damn device that is the mobile phone.
