However much a woman is in love, there are tendencies any self-loving woman should not take lying down in a relationship.
Such include:
A hidden child
Any responsible man intending to date, commit and marry a woman should open up and let the woman know that he has a child or children out there.
Infidelity
A man who sleeps around is certainly not ready for a relationship and therefore should not commit to a woman. Commitment to a relationship calls for responsibility and loyalty.
Forceful Abortion
A man who is not ready for any commitment in a relationship will readily provide money to facilitate the flushing out of their baby. He does not care about the feelings of the lady as he does not visualize a future together. After the abortion, such men vanish into thin air
Disrespect to her parents
A woman should not tolerant any form of disrespect from her man to her parents. He should respect her parents as much as he respects his. A man who makes no effort to know his woman’s parents, leave alone letting them know that he lives with their daughter is disrespectful.
Slavery
Besides running errands, the woman cleans, cooks, and manages the home. She does all these chores out of love and not out of duty. The man should, therefore, accord her the respect she deserves and not treat her like a paid home manager.
Forceful sex
Why would a man who loves you forcefully have sex with you? Whether done to a wife, friend or stranger, rape is a vice and shows that the man has no regard for his ‘victim.’
Sexist statements
Even in this era, some men view women as inferior. They seize every opportunity to make belittling jokes about their women. Such should not be the case as such statements do not reflect respect and love.
Economic sabotage
A good man should neither choke his woman economically nor deliberately desire to dominate her. Making your woman dependent and powerless is just selfish and inconsiderate.
Insults
Love conquers negative feelings. A man who is truly in love with a woman will not find any reason to insult her.
Physical abuse
True love protects and looks after the interests of the spouse. A man who raises his hand to slap or hit a woman promotes domestic violence. Even amidst a heated quarrel, a man should never consider hitting the woman he claims to love. People who are in love should respect, protect and have regard for each other.
