Are you clear about what you feel about your friend? Because it would not be the first friendship that stems from a relationship. In fact, it is most tempting to go one step further when you share so many things with one person, so many stories, so many experiences and, in addition, you understand each other so well. You are very clear that it is only friendship, but what about him? There are some things you should not do with your friend if you do not want anything with him.
What you should not do with your friend
If you are doubting, if you suspect that your friend is falling in love with you or wants something more than a friendship with you, you should be careful and do not give false hopes. For that, it is best to avoid certain situations.
1. The same bed. It is common for friends to share a bed on occasion. On a trip, a party night or that weekend with the rest of the group in a country house. If you think your friend wants something else with you, it is best to avoid temptation.
2. Travel to Mombasa. Of course you can travel with your best friend, but not to Mombasa. Mombasa is the city of lovers, or you go with more people or you will not. There are a thousand destinations that you can discover with your best friend.
3. Confessions. If it is your friend it is normal that you tell him your last amorous disappointment or your last infatuation. Also last night you ended up in the bed of the brunette you met at the bar, but please do not give details of the meeting.
4. Tips. Your friend will also tell you your sentimental comings and goings. Do not tell her that that girl does not like him at all (unless she asks you directly) because sometimes sincerity can be misinterpreted.
What if your friend wants something else?
That you find yourself posing these situations leads us to the next question: what if your friend wants something else? Because if so, if your friend is in love with you, you will not be able to avoid facing the situation, sooner or later you will have to take action on the matter and, of course, you do not want him to get hurt.
The best thing in case of unilateral love (only he wants something more) is to make it clear that you are not interested in having something with him, that you like him as a friend and that introducing one more element could jeopardize your friendship. Of course he does not think the same, but it is you who always decide.
Although you can also use this moment of reflection to dive deep within yourself and discover that you also feel something for your friend. Friendship and love is the perfect team for a happy couple relationship. And who better than your friend to love you unconditionally?
