Recognizing it is the first step, they say. And we have long recognized that the traditional concept of relationship is obsolete and does not help us, judging by the large number of ruptures that we accumulate in our history. That is why we are looking at polyamory and all its variants. It is time to broaden horizons.
Is the polyamory for you?
If you think that monogamy is not viable, if you have already put the horns to all the boyfriends you have had, if your relationships have ended better or worse, but finished after all, maybe you are not made for the relationship conventional. But beware, because that does not mean that you are made for polyamory.
The polyamory is … doctrine, philosophy of life, attitude, vital proposal … choose what you prefer, which allows to maintain several sentimental relations at the same time. This will sound to you from the time you fell in love with two men at once and you went crazy finding the formula to conjugate both loves. Then you did not find it, but now the polyamory arrives in case it happens again.
It’s to think about it. The polyamory allows you to love several people at once. Having several relationships at once, we speak of feelings and emotions. If we talked about sex, that would be a trio or an orgy depending on how many people you have taken to your polyamory. Think of the great possibilities of polyamory. Also think about how many partner problems you have had with a single love multiplied by each participant.
Polyamory variant and what it means in pair
Think about the viability of polyamory, because not everyone is worth to accept it. Eliminate the sarcasm with which we have tried to poison you in the previous paragraphs and examine your heart to see if you have enough generosity to love several people at once without conflict. And let’s not talk about you.
Let’s talk about your partner, a couple who will also have a heart as big and generous as yours that will fit many more people besides you. Are you ready for something like that? Perhaps before beginning the polyamory practices it is best to skip the barriers one by one. The first step may be to try an open relationship where there is no sexual exclusivity.
Then you can continue making way in sexual territory, like those swinger couples that make the exchange an art. And do not forget that a threesome is one of the most common sexual fantasies. We advise you to enter first on slippery terrain that breaks sexual conventions because, polyamory, what transforms completely is not sex but feelings. And those are harder to mold.
