Dating can be tricky at times.So you are not exclusive, but you’ve been going out for a few months and owe her a face-to-face breakup Or a post on Facebook,tweet on Twitter-It Must have been love,but its over now..
Here are the tips:
* Choose your place wisely. It should not be a weekday that’s not Wednesday (ladies night)or Friday? Because most social places are always so crowded that you have to shout.
* Make it drinks, not dinner.No dinner,Drinks Only..when you plan for dinner,you’ll have to spend more time with someone to need to say goodbye,your feeling may betray you at such moments.
* Show up early. You definitely want to be sitting and prepared for the conversation —it’ll throw you off if you show up late and frazzled and she’s already there, waiting. Just come like 15 minutes early and have one drink if you feel like it. No more than one, or else when she shows up, you’ll forget the censored version of your breakup speech .
* Remember that dumping is sort of like a job interview — you need to present a certain version of yourself. In a job interview, when they’re like “What’s your biggest flaw?” you can’t really say “I show up to work hungovered ” But you also can’t completely lie and say “I’m a perfectionist,” because that’s not true. We both know it’s just not. Basically, tell as much of the truth about why you want to end it as you can without hurting the person’s feelings to much. And make your reasoning mostly about you so you don’t antagonise the person.
* Do not mince words. “I don’t think we should see each other anymore” is pretty effective.Be straight and to the point.
* Do not be fazed by how the person reacts. Stand your ground, even if they look like a hapless pussy staring into the oncoming light of a tractor-trailer at night, which is very likely.
*Time management. Finish your drink, say “I should get out of here,”
Else if you are a coward better try the worst breakup, not even via text but it’s through the watchman” Madam, walisema nisikufungulie tena” .
