1. Look good – Let’s talk about pleasing your man with appearances first. Guys are shallow lol. & the physical appearance of their girlfriend plays a big part in his ego and his desire to be with you. Look sexy and have eyes turn towards you when you’re in his arms. If his friends think you’re hot stuff, he’ll desire you and want to be with you more. And he’ll never want to let go of you.
2. Respect yourself – Your boyfriend is not better than you. Falling in love is a mutual experience between lovers. Have an ego and be confident of yourself. If you truly respect yourself, your boyfriend can’t help but respect you and admire you.
3. Spend time with your own friends – Make your own plans now & then go out with your own friends & feel good about yourself, be it in having a good conversation or attracting the attention of another cute guy. Believe in yourself & remember that you’re still hot stuff. And the best part, he’ll miss you more when you aren’t available at his beck and call.
4. Have your own life – Let it not all revolve around him. Your boyfriend is only a part of your life, not all of it. If you’re always with him or he finds you available all the time, he’ll only take you for granted.
5.(For The Married) Be a wildcat with fiery passion – Try new things in bed. If you want to know how to make your boyfriend want you sexually, don’t be predictable in bed. Try new things & don’t let bedtime get boring. Enjoy sex and take pride in your passion & interest in exploring sex.
6. Be a smart girl – Be aware of the world around you, be it on the news or in current affairs. Men always think they’re more intelligent & aware. Prove him wrong, he’ll ‘worship’ you & take you more seriously.
7. Play hard to get when he takes you easy – Don’t let your boyfriend ever take you for granted. If you ever feel like he’s taking you lightly, put him in place. It’ll scare him, true, but it’ll also make him realize that you’re not someone to be taken for granted.
8. Display PDA – Men love it when their girl shows her appreciation in public. It makes them feel desired and lucky. Wrap your arm around him or place your hand on his cheek in appreciation when he’s being nice. He’ll be a lot nicer and he’ll be happy to have a girlfriend like you.
9. Walk away if he disrespects you – Snub him or avoid his calls when he disrespects you. He’ll be too scared to take you lightly. You’re not throwing a tantrum by doing this, you’re letting him know that you have self respect.
10. Follow your own dreams – Be passionate about life and your own ambitions. Your boyfriend will never respect you or desire you if all you do is sit wide eyed and stare when he talks about his ambitions and dreams, and have nothing to share in return.
