Kenyan football icons Victor Wanyama and McDonald Mariga are mourning the loss of their beloved mother, Mildred Wanyama, whose death on June 14 has left many in shock. Her passing, which stemmed from what initially seemed like a minor burn on her leg, turned into a tragic medical emergency. According to her husband, a hospital visit that was meant to be routine ended up being their final moment together before she died.
During her funeral, Wanyama gave an emotional tribute, recalling a defining moment in his early career. While training in Belgium, he considered quitting due to homesickness. He called home, ready to give up, but his mother encouraged him to stay and pursue his dream. Her words stayed with him, and he credited her for his perseverance and success. “Even though she is no longer physically here, I still feel her presence,” he said.
Days after the funeral, a video emerged online showing Wanyama and Mariga at a nightclub alongside Kapseret MP Oscar Sudi. The clip captured the two brothers dancing to Tobina by gospel singer Daddy Owen, who was performing live. Despite the celebratory setting, their subdued expressions hinted at the emotional weight they were still carrying.
The video quickly went viral, sparking mixed reactions from the public. Some people questioned how the brothers could be out celebrating so soon after such a painful loss. Others defended them, pointing out that grief doesn’t have a set timeline or expression.
Psychologists note that such reactions—dancing, laughing, or seeking light moments—can be part of a healthy coping mechanism. Grief, they explain, is not a linear process. People often experience waves of sorrow, joy, and numbness in no particular order. Being surrounded by supportive friends or community during mourning can offer emotional relief, even if only momentary.
Adding to the emotional weight of the moment, Wanyama’s partner, actress Serah Teshna, revealed that Mildred passed away on the same day as their daughter’s birthday. She shared how heartbreaking it was to mark the special occasion while in mourning, adding that they plan to celebrate their little girl’s birthday when the time feels right.
The entire journey has reminded many that grief wears many faces. For some, it shows up in tears and silence. For others, it can be found in unexpected smiles, familiar music, or a brief dance in a crowded room. What matters most is that healing, however it appears, is honoured and respected.
