By now you will know that you must accept the defects of your partner, including your mother-in-law.
But accepting your mother-in-law does not mean you allow her to intrude on your relationship. You have to put limits on mothers-in-law, like children.
We have 10 guidelines for your mother-in-law to leave in peace and do not drive you crazy.
1 Yes
Although all self-help manuals for being an independent woman tell you that you must learn to say ‘no’, this is not valid for your mother-in-law.
Tell your mother-in-law always yes, yes to everything, even on what you don’t what you want, but to ‘yes’ in time avoids countless arguments.
2 Sundays
The best way to avoid your mother-in-law on Sundays is to assure her that you are going to eat. Already on Saturday night you can invent a credible excuse because unfortunately you cannot go to eat.
That you would love, but you cannot.
3 Substitutions.
You can get rid of the food on Sundays, but logically you cannot get rid of your mother-in- law forever.
Substitute Sunday lunch for a coffee on Wednesday afternoon. This will disarm her because it will catch her by surprise and you may start to fall better.
4 Smile.
Do not go into the rag to the hints of your mother-in-law. You smile always teaching your teeth well and the lady will pull at some point of throwing you malicious phrases.
5 Couple
Talk to your partner because after all it’s about your family and war you should not wage it yourself. You must establish limits as a couple where they have no place or your family or yours and that is also your boyfriend’s task. Make it clear.
6 Releases
You do not need to communicate to your mother-in-law all your movements. You are adults, at least you are, and you go in and out when you want.
Watch out, it’s not going to be a problem with your boyfriend and we’re blaming it on your mother-in-law.
7 Appreciation
Praise your mother-in-law could be one of the commandments to keep the peace in family.
It is absolutely essential that you say that you cook better than anyone else in the world. If you do not know, it will not stop asking you how everything is.
8 Lie.
Although we are firm supporters of going through life with the truth ahead and honesty, when it comes to the mother-in-law it is permissible to lie.
You can lie all you want, you can get sick in an imaginary way or you can invent a new job that keeps you away from her ulcers
9 Talk
To prevent your mother-in-law from meddling in relationship problems, you can have pre-prepared phrases to use when the conversation turns on you.
Change the focus of attention and create another type of talk so that the lady keeps her tongue away from you.
10 Disappearances.
Occasionally disappear, leave with your partner one day and do not tell your mother-in-law. On the return you ask for forgiveness for not remembering to tell her, that will let her know that it is not important as she believes.
