From time to time we should review our concept of healthy relationship to see what we are wrong. We talk about holding out for love, those attitudes of your boyfriend that you tolerate because you think you should. But it’s not like that. These are some situations that you should never consent to your boyfriend.
10 intolerable situations with the person you love
It is not always clear when you are living a toxic relationship, but the intuition that something is failing is there. You just have to listen to your intuition and stop pampering your boyfriend some behaviors that are not of love.
1 That lies to you. Many times you ignore the little lies of your boyfriend, like when he tells you that he stays working late but is actually with friends taking something. Confidence breaks to the first lie no matter how small a matter.
2 That he may be unfaithful to you. Infidelity is as difficult to prove as to forgive once demonstrated. Forgiving an infidelity is an option, but almost never the best.
3 Check your phone. Or the computer. Know your email and social networking codes. It is not about hiding things, but about not invading the privacy to which you are entitled.
4 Tell you what you have to do. Or what you do not have to do. This is valid for any situation, because you are an independent person with own criteria that makes their own decisions.
5 Let him tell you for your sake. ‘I tell you for your sake.’ Few phrases as devastating as this one in a couple. Here is someone who has the supreme knowledge and who is lecturing and protecting you in such a paternalistic attitude that exudes machismo and poison everywhere.
6 To blackmail you. In all areas of life. Blackmail or emotional manipulation make it possible for you to always do what your boyfriend wants from leisure time to bed.
7 That you despise. ‘You are not going to …’ This sentence indicates that he does not value you. And if he does not value you, he does not love you. Do not give more turns because that boyfriend is not worth it. You alone will know how to value yourself better.
8 Let your dreams steal you. Your boyfriend does not believe in you, much less in your dreams, that’s why it seems like nonsense or fantasies that you will never be able to realize. Do not let anyone take away your dreams, do not let anyone take away the illusion.
9 Make you change. You can change a couple, especially if you can cancel it. Keep in mind that if your boyfriend wants to change you, he does not like you the way you are, so do not let him. Let him find another one that he likes more.
10 Blame it on you. See if after each couple discussion it’s up to you to ask for forgiveness. It’s okay to acknowledge a mistake and apologize, but if you always blame yourself for what happens in the couple, it is to suspect.
