If your spouse loves salsa and it’s not your thing, still get on the dance floor. If your spouse loves to play Play Station or video games, play it too sometimes. If your spouse loves to travel more than you, tag along still. Do the things that make your spouse happy and as you do them, you will understand your spouse more
Ways to keep your marriage relationship strong and everlasting
TALK DAILY
Everyone must talk daily, if your spouse is not talking to you daily, your spouse is talking to someone else or other people and that is dangerous. Don’t let anyone take your position of daily chat mate in your spouse’s life
KNOW EACH OTHER’S FAMILY AND FRIENDS
When his family, her family, his friends and her friends are one big close unit it is difficult to drift apart
HAVE FUN, LAUGH TOGETHER
People don’t leave an environment that is fun. If you make things between you two boring, always serious and a daunting task; both of you will get tired of each other
EAT TOGETHER
A meal ties people together
WORSHIP THE SAME GOD
It is wonderful when you talk to your spouse about how good God is and your spouse knows what you mean. When you worship the same God you both have similar values and mindset making it easy to foster unity
DO THINGS THAT SPOUSES DO
Kiss, cuddle, hold hands, take showers together, talk intimate stuff exclusively to each other; this tightens your bond
DECLARE YOUR LOVE PUBLICLY
When the public knows you two are a couple, much of the public will respect your marriage making it easier for you to strengthen your love
PRAY TOGETHER
A couple that prays together stays together
GO TO THE SAME PLACE OF WORSHIP
When you both worship with the same congregation it makes it easy for you two to chart the same course
GROW TOGETHER SPIRITUALLY
Be of one spirit
GROW TOGETHER INTELLECTUALLY
Advance in the growth of mind, be at the same level so that none feels the other is too underexposed or shallow or too deep and an intellectual brag
GROW TOGETHER FINANCIALLY
Walk as a team, if one has little, support him/her; if you both have few, work together towards increase; if you both have plenty, use your joint wealth to love each other
CONCENTRATE ON WHAT YOU HAVE IN COMMON .
Pay more attention to what makes you alike than what you have different
STAY SEXY
Be eye candy, a turn on, a sex bomb to each other. Our horny selves like where our fire is lit up to the core. Work on staying attractive, dress right, stay confident, maintain a nice figure
FLIRT EXCLUSIVELY
Be a naughty flirt, but only to your spouse
MAKE DECISIONS TOGETHER
Develop a habit of running by your options and thoughts to your spouse. Involve each other in decision making
DO THAY ONE THING
Find that one thing that excites both of you, whether dancing, filling crosswords, cooking, singing, doing house chores and do it together
DO PARENTING AS A TEAM
Talk to your child/children together, eat as a family, go for parent’s day together, let your children give you reasons to be a strong team
SUPPORT EACH OTHER
Be each other’s biggest fan. Know each other’s dreams, have a common vision
SACRIFICE TO LIKE WHAT YOUR SPOUSE LOVES.
If your spouse loves something that you are not a fan of, be a good sport and just play along. If your spouse is a fan of football and you’re not, sacrifice and occasionally watch a match together. If your spouse loves different types of movies than you, occasionally watch those movies together.
