We are too hard on ourselves. Surely in your life you have done more good than bad, but sometimes we find it hard to see what we have achieved.
Just because you’re not a millionaire or living in a mansion doesn’t mean you have failed as a person. In fact, it’s the opposite.
You are evolving and developing as a person, and these signs demonstrate you becoming someone better
1. You are empathetic with others
Not feeling empathy is like being dead inside. Others also laugh, cry and suffer like you. If you have understood that you should treat others as you would like them to treat you, congratulations!
2. You love and let love
Love is risky and sometimes terrifying. We all seek it but we all fear rejection. If you open your heart enough to overcome that fear and love and be loved, congratulations!
3. You don’t care what others think
You know you can’t all like it. You know that the standards by which society judges people are unrealistic. If you are true to yourself and do not let yourself be influenced by others, congratulations!
4. You accept what you cannot change
There are things in life that cannot be changed, but what can be changed is how we take it. If you can stop seeing the glass as half empty and start to see it as half full
5. You change what you can change
You do not accept what you do not like and can be changed. You overcome resignation and manage to do something about it. If you do this, congratulations
6. You are happy
It doesn’t matter if your balance is in your bank account, the size of your house or the vacation you take. If you are happy it means that you are having success in your life.
Even if you don’t see yourself in many of these 16 things, don’t worry. It’s okay. Be happy to see yourself in just a few. In time the rest will come alone.