Who was going to tell us just a few years ago that we were currently going to have an application on the mobile to be able to talk instantly with who we want, at anytime and anywhere in the world, right?
WhatsApp came to revolutionize our lives. Both as for well and for worse. It is true that it has many advantages and that it favors communication: We can use it to chat with our friends, to communicate something important to our family or to have a better relationship with our co-workers.
The problem comes when you make an inappropriate use of this tool and all we get is complicate our lives.
Because it is very good that through WhatsApp you communicate with your partner, tell yourself how your day has gone or send you romantic messages of love, but it is not so good that through this application you try to spy on him, control him or demand I’ll listen to you 24 hours a day.
There are already many millions of couples around the world that have broken because of WhatsApp and these are the seven most controversial messages that can make your relationship go to ruin. Pay attention and try to avoid them if you want to continue with your boyfriend happy and eating partridges.
If you really trust your partner you will not need to be at all times checking your last connection time or watching if the double blue check appears to know if you have read your messages or not.
There are certain things you should do if you want to have a healthy and strong relationship and try to send these messages to your boyfriend is one of them:
1. Why do not you answer me if you’re online?
Have you not considered that maybe your boy is answering an urgent message to him and that you are not in such a hurry nor is it so important?
Have you not considered that maybe now you do not have enough time, you are answering to a quick message and you prefer to respond with more peace of mind?
If you really care about him and want to talk to you, he will answer you sooner or later. Do not overwhelm him or the only thing you will get is to unleash the discussion of the century among you.
2. Where are you? Send me your location
Do you like to be controlled 24 hours a day? Do you like to explain what you do and where you are at each moment of the day?
Surely your answer is no. Well you should know that others do not either. Try to know the movements of your boyfriend and each step he takes is an obsessive behavior that leads to a toxic relationship.
3. We have to talk
This phrase does not bring good precisely .
In the event that you want to talk about something very important with your partner that affects your relationship it will be better to do it face to face and not for WhatsApp. Normally, communicating through a mobile screen only causes misunderstandings and bad scrolls.
4. You’re online, but you’re not talking to me, are you
already chatting with one of your friends?
Jealousy is very difficult to control, it is true, but if you are a person who cannot control your distribution, it is best to go to a professional who helps you. If your boyfriend is not giving you any reason to distrust you may end up getting tired of your paranoia and ending the relationship. And you the last thing you want is that, right?
5. Why did you connect yesterday at four in the morning?
Have you really woken up in the middle of the night to check your boyfriend’s last connection hour? As in the previous case, you have a problem that you have to solve before your relationship ends up breaking.
Why, instead of thinking that your boyfriend has a lover, do you think he has insomnia and he cannot sleep well?
6. Why did you remove the last connection time? Do you have something to hide?
If something bad has the WhatsApp is that it has become an authentic control tool. The last hour of connection, the double blue check
Everything is done so that we know minute by minute what does or does not do. It is normal for your boyfriend to have disabled these options to avoid that control. What’s wrong with it?
7. Why do you answer quicker for the group of friends than in our private conversation?
You have a group in common and your boy has answered the messages that have been sent there before your private ones. And you already have the drama mounted. The discussion is assured and be careful because it could end in something worse: It could end in break up
