When your best friend ends up with her boyfriend, one of the first people to look for is surely you.
For the years that he knows you, the trust and affection he has for you hopes to find in you the right words, however, you don’t know what to say and in the eagerness to try to comfort her you say phrases like these: “Nothing is forever” Everything will pass “.
Here we tell you what phrases you should avoid telling a person who is going through a love break:
1.You finally ended up with that idiot
Even if it’s true, you can’t put more wood in the fire. Remember that your friend has just finished with her boyfriend and all she wants to hear is words of support.
2.You will find someone better
It is not time to tell you that you can find someone better, when all you want is to close this stage.
3.Enjoy your singleness. I wish I was alone!
You can’t tell him that, because you’re not in his shoes. The pain that the other person feels for having finished is still latent.
4. Everything happens for something
You will not understand reasons because you feel hurt. It is his moment of sadness is when he should receive more support from you.
5. In a week it passes and you will do as before
And what will he do in the meantime? Join her for an activity where she can keep her mind busy.
6.Just remember the bad times and you will feel better
Bad idea. It will only make you sad and angry more by remembering bad times you lived.
7.You deserve better
And he will ask you: And where is it? Let her live her duel. The best thing in these cases is to listen to everything you have to say.
