Relationships are as weird as they come. What baffles me is that you would find a person in an abusive relationship but they are just there tolerating them instead of walking away. Not only women stay in bad and abusive relationships but also men. Here are reasons why men tend to stay in bad relationships.
1. Lazy to start over
This is a reason that makes a man stay in a bad relationship for as long as possible. Many are too lazy to start over with someone else. They can’t imagine starting the dating thing all over again and meeting weird people before the perfect match for them. They therefore choose to stay in the bad relationship and keep hoping for the best.
2. Fear of change
Despite the fact that change is inevitable, when it comes to relationships many would opt to stay in a bad relationship rather than let changes come in. Many men fear getting in a new relationship because of uncertainties and they prefer their comfort zone rather than try out something new.
3. Fear of loneliness
Loneliness is something that terrifies men and they would rather stay in a bad relationship rather than break up with their partners and start over. The period of being alone till they get a replacement makes it hard for them to walk out of a bad relationship.
4. Fear of break up conflict
Conflict is something that men tend to fear a lot. When you break up with someone that you were in a relationship with, conflict is bound to come and hence resulting to pain and hatred. A man would therefore choose to stay in the hell of a relationship to avoid the conflict that it may bring.
It is very sad to stay in a bad relationship due to the above reasons. One should simply be selfish and think about his own happiness for once and take that leap of faith. You never know, your perfect match might just be next door.
