Milly Wajesus, a well-known Kenyan content creator, recently opened up about her silent struggles with postpartum depression following the birth of her third child in February. In a candid session with a therapist and her husband, Kabi Wajesus, Milly revealed the emotional turmoil she endured, bringing attention to the often-overlooked challenges of motherhood.
Milly Wajesus’ Struggles with Postpartum Depression
In a heartfelt video shared on their YouTube channel, Milly tearfully recounted moments when she felt overwhelmed to the point of considering walking away from her family. She admitted that in January, she experienced distressing thoughts about leaving her children, feeling burdened and inadequate as a mother.
“I had moments where I felt like I could abandon them,” she shared. “I felt like I wasn’t good enough, and I blamed the children for my struggles, even though I knew it wasn’t their fault.”
Despite her inner turmoil, Milly emphasized that she never directed any frustration toward her children. Instead, she would cry alone in the bathroom, grappling with feelings of loneliness and self-doubt.
The Role of Kabi Wajesus and Their Family Dynamic
Milly also admitted that she felt a shift in Kabi’s support after giving birth. While he had been attentive during her pregnancy, she perceived that his focus had shifted entirely to their newborn, leaving her feeling neglected. One particular incident stood out—when Kabi delayed bringing their suitcases to the car, Milly felt so frustrated that she packed her bags, ready to leave for her parents’ home. However, she reconsidered, realizing she couldn’t abandon her children.
Postpartum Depression Awareness
Postpartum depression is a serious condition that affects many new mothers, with symptoms including anxiety, insomnia, mood swings, and feelings of guilt or worthlessness. Milly’s story resonated deeply with many women who shared similar experiences in the comments section of the video.
One mother recounted going through postpartum depression while preparing for her KCSE exams and dealing with the loss of a loved one, while another shared how isolation during the COVID-19 pandemic worsened her condition.
A Message of Hope
Despite her struggles, Milly reassured her followers that she is in a better place now. She encouraged other mothers to seek help and support, emphasizing the importance of speaking up about mental health challenges.
Milly and Kabi, who have built a strong online following as a couple, welcomed their third child in February in a luxurious hospital. Kabi documented the delivery room experience in a video that received mixed reactions from fans.
Through her openness, Milly has sparked an important conversation about the realities of postpartum depression, inspiring many women to share their own journeys and seek help where needed.
