Books, movies and romance stories have created an idea of love in which one day we simply find the perfect person for a full and lasting relationship flows with ease.
However, in reality that rarely happens. Generally we live many relationships of couple in which through trial and error we learn or try to learn what a relationship really implies.
Love is a process that must be worked on. It is not a result, it is a construction that has three fundamental pillars:
Have fundamental agreements
The specialists states that the ideal is to share some key tastes with your partner, such as sense of humor and outrage over the same things.
Similarly, it helps to share the same religious beliefs, especially if you plan to start a family. Otherwise, many discussions and disagreements may arise that affect the relationship.
Eroticism
You have to like your partner. If there is no eroticism, your partner would be like a brother and run the risk of getting bored quickly.
Care for the other
This arises after the sexual. The care for the other comes when there is tenderness, when the pain of your partner hurts as if it were their own and when the joys make you happy.
When you have those three elements in the relationship you can build love, but if one of them is not there, it is unlikely to work.
