In a heartwarming and unconventional move, Bishop Ben Kiengei of JCM Church is helping singles in his congregation find love and companionship. During a recent church service, Bishop Kiengei encouraged single members to stand and embrace the opportunity to connect with others, especially in the context of a supportive faith-based community. His advice for unmarried men? If you’re shy about approaching women, use your money as a backup to show interest.
Bishop Kiengei’s gesture was both playful and practical as he distinguished between different groups within the single congregation. “If you are a single mother raising your kids alone, stand,” he said, renaming them “lovely mamas” as a mark of respect and encouragement. The congregation responded warmly, with members offering hugs and words of support to the single mothers. He then turned to the unmarried individuals, both men and women, and humorously advised the men to “use money” if they lacked the confidence to make a move.
This unique approach resonated with many in the congregation, and some netizens took to social media to express their excitement about the possibility of meeting a Godly partner at church. One social media user joked, “Sunday naona nikija physical church,” indicating they would consider attending church in person if it meant meeting a potential spouse.
In addition to his matchmaking efforts, Bishop Kiengei has been sharing romantic moments with his wife, Joy, which has earned him praise from his followers. Despite recent controversies involving his personal life, including allegations of infidelity, Kiengei’s actions suggest a renewed commitment to his family. The Bishop’s efforts to balance his ministry with a focus on love and relationships are being widely discussed, with many applauding his openness in addressing the subject of marriage and relationships in church.
While some might find his methods unconventional, Bishop Kiengei’s effort to provide practical, yet faith-centered guidance to singles has undoubtedly sparked a conversation on how churches can help build relationships in a supportive, community-focused way.
