Beach or mountain? Cultural or adventure tourism? Foreign or national? There is no shortage of those relationships that stay at home not because of lack of financial means, but because of lack of agreement for vacations. We wonder what to do when we do not agree with the holidays and ask ourselves the solutions to this eternal conflict of the holidays.
If it’s hard for you to agree with the series that you’re going to see tonight, you would not think that choosing the holidays would be a path of roses, right? One of the most frequent couple discussions is related to vacations, which is not surprising since it is the period that is supposed to enjoy to the full.
But the concept of enjoyment is relative and everyone understands it in their own way. He wants to go to the beach to spend all day lying by the sea, getting up every now and then to go to the beach bar to quench his hunger and thirst. But to you it seems a precious time wasted because you prefer to visit some city you do not know and soak up its history, its monuments or its customs.
Or your dream may be an adventure trip across the globe and you need to disconnect from the world spending a few weeks in a cabin in the middle of nowhere. How to agree? Neither is there so many vacations throughout the year and you have to take good advantage of them. We can not bitter on vacation, that is forbidden.
How to solve the holiday conflict
So we must resolve this conflict with the holidays and reach an agreement. And there are several possibilities:
1. Face the cross. This is the method of conflict resolution used by children from ancient times, but it remains equally valid. You have to reduce the possible elections to two, throw a coin into the air and pray for it to come face to face. If you cross, you will have to wait for the next vacation to get yours.
2. Once each. As you are a happy, stable and lasting couple, surely you will have more vacations together and we all know that one of the secrets of relationships is to give way. This year beach and next year mountain. You have your whole life ahead of you.
3. You, to Boston, I to California. Or what is the same, you on one side and I on the other. If neither is willing to give in, if you both think that the other’s proposal is to waste precious and sacred time on vacation, it is best that you go each one by your side. In addition, so you get rid of that curse of many couples who break on vacation.
