Things do not happen when one wants, but when Murphy’s karma, destiny or law decide it. This applies to life in general and to particular couple relationships.
There are things that happen to you with a boyfriend that did not happen to you single, those things that you would have wanted to happen to you then. Not now.
It is one thing to accept your marital status at every vital stage and another thing is that you do not realize the plays of karma when you start a new relationship. Those things that happen to you now that you have a boyfriend and that you would have liked them to happen when you were single.
1 Your ex wants to go back. It has cost you to overcome the break more time than desirable. For months you’ve been sighing for a call from your ex-boyfriend telling you everything was a mistake and asking for another chance. And the call did not arrive and it did not arrive. The call arrives now that you are so happy with your new relationship.
2 more leagues. The drama of the unmarried is not the lack of company, but the lack of sex. All the unmarried women have gone through periods of drought in which they were not even glimpsed candidates for possible sexual encounters. And now that you have a boyfriend, now they appear and do not stop to call.
3 Your platonic love is decided. That boy you’ve been sighing about for so long and did not even know you existed, suddenly looks at you and lets you know that he’s interested in meeting you. Yeah, right now that you have a boyfriend.
4 Your first love reappears. Ex-boyfriends, Platonic loves, ideal men and first loves have a radar to detect when you start a relationship and make its stellar appearance. Do not break your head, the loves of the past, past are.
5 Your social life is a non-stop. When you were single there were days when you had no plans or anyone to go out with. Friends, coworkers, and classmates seemed to be plotting to stay at home lamenting your loneliness. And now that you’re busy enjoying your new relationship, your plans go away.
6 That friend with friction. When you were single you sighed for having a friend with right, those that offer you the security of having sex every fortnight and no commitment. But there were no candidates. It’s starting with your boyfriend and potential friends right out of the rocks.
7 Your friends are single. Never fail. All the time you’ve been single you looked with envy to your friends who casually all had a partner. You see that your friendship is out of step because one by one have been breaking their relationships while you began with your new love.
