The wife was created as a helper and companion. How do you help?
- Find out his vision so that you may be his support
- Communicate to him your own personal vision so that together you fulfil purpose
- Challenge him to grow. Don’t be comfortable with your current state, introduce him to new ideas on how to do marriage better, how to handle finances, how to work smarter, how to be the best you both can be
- Beautify his environment and please his eyes. There is something stimulating about a woman to a man
- Work and contribute to the family provisions. Be the Proverbs 31 Woman. You too, went to school, was given the mandate to be fruitful, multiply, replenish, subdue and have dominion. Whether you are employed or run a business, grow the family wealth together
- Warn him of danger and disagree with him when he is wrong. Don’t be a “Yes” woman rubber stamping all his decisions. You might be seeing things he does not
- Pray for him and with him. Cover him in prayer
- Raise the children with him. You might have different parental skills but have the same vision for the children
- Hear him out, give him a place where he feels safe to talk and open up. Many men suffer in silence wondering where to go. Be his confidant
- Build him up. Don’t tear him down with your words. Don’t demean him, that does not help
