We look back on our sentimental history in search of the most frequent types of boyfriends, lovers, husbands or couples in general.
And we are in relationships, those that end up breaking, with some types of boyfriends who are not healthy are usual. Attention to the types of lovers that we have met in this life because not all are worthwhile.
In an exhaustive fieldwork we have analyzed the characteristics of our sentimental partners, our own and those of others, and we have found 15 types of very frequent boyfriends and that we must avoid.
1 The saving boyfriend
This type of boyfriend, lover, partner or maybe you become a husband appears in your life as if he were a knight errant with the best intentions taken from children’s stories.
I eat to save you, to rescue you, to change your life to make a happy woman. Beware of leaving your happiness in the hands of anyone, never forget it.
2 The distrustful boyfriend
The poor broke his heart in the past (as if it was the only one they had hurt) and now he is distrustful in relationships.
You will not be able to take another step and you can spend years on a roll without a future.
3 The intense
He loves you more than his life (or so he says). This type of boyfriend leaves the intensity of any folk at the height of an amateur and may even write poems and love letters.
But be careful, because so much intensity usually deflates when you’re already getting used to it.
4 The dependent boyfriend
It may not be as intense as the previous one, but it’s up to you completely. His happiness in general, I cannot be happy if it is not with you, but also his daily routines.
It is a dependent person unable to do anything by himself.
5 The possessive boyfriend
One of the most dangerous types of boyfriend.
The possessive believes that you belong to him and carries forward his idea supported by all that patriarchal erotic cultural framework whose motto is ‘you are mine’.
6 Perfect Don
At first it seems that you have found the ideal man. Attractive, witty, funny, successful, he has everything.
It is perfect. Get away as soon as possible from any Perfect Gift that shows up for your life because of your self-esteem will plummet by your side.
7 The empathetic boyfriend
He says he is empathetic and you think that you have won the lottery because empathy is one of the bases of the couple and it is not too frequent.
He also says to be communicative and very rational. Beware, always keep in mind a couple of sayings before these people who do not stop bragging about their virtues: ‘it is not the same to preach than to give wheat’ and ‘tell me what you presume and I will tell you what you lack ‘
8 The jealous boyfriend
As dangerous as the possessive and will surely share traits with him. We are not going to analyze the guy in question because jealousy is very clearly noticed.
Just remember that your physical and emotional health is at risk alongside a jealous man.
9 The civilized
It is similar to the empathic one and it will dazzle you with its measured and soft forms. I have not outbursts of anger, I do not shout, I speak everything.
Where is the trap? That communication as a couple is not a tool to improve the relationship, but to demonstrate your rhetorical skills.
10 The groom delivered
This boy is dedicated to the cause. To the cause of your love. Of your true love. And whatever you do, say and decide in your life, do it for your love. A bit excessive, do not you think?
11 The ‘son’
It’s like Marco, who travels the world in search of a mother. He does not want a relationship of equals, he wants a person to take care of him, treat him and adore him as he deserves.
12 The illusionist
It’s not that you’re going to have a story full of magic, but full of lies. The illusionist is that boyfriend capable of showing you a beautiful face with plans for a happy future and a good day disappears from your life without giving an explanation.
13 The one that goes from hard
It is not necessarily bad, it is going hard. He is one of those who never fall in love because love, he says, dramas dramas. They are more about sex without commitment.
14 The Siamese
It will not leave you in the sun or in the shade because you are a couple and you have to do everything together.
But everything, everything. Your friends will never see you again alone and your sisters will not be able to spend 5 minutes alone with you. It’s a full-fledged emotional kidnapping, get out of there.
15 The life partner
Seen the seen, lived the thing, the best thing will be to have a boyfriend but a companion of life. But is there a life partner or is it easier to find a unicorn?
Some friends have told us that they have seen them, but in the distance.
