Even if you are not looking for a relationship, the first date is the time to impress the other person.
We all decorate our way of being that day, so we’re not going to scream in heaven over those exaggerations of the first date men and women do.
But we are going to take them into account.
It is not that men lie when they are meeting a girl, that also, but that is another matter.
They decorate their lives in such a way that they look like real blue princes. And we must be aware of those exaggerations of the first date, that all that glitters is not gold.
Attentive to these areas susceptible to exaggeration.
1 Work
He tells you that he works in the pharmaceutical or medical field and you imagine him in a white coat discovering the cure against cancer.
He does not take you out of your mistake, although he is actually a medical field. It is the titanic struggle between your ability to mount a movie against his desire to impress.
2 Reading.
Reading is probably the universal lie when two people are getting to know each other, the most talked about in the world.
He tells you that he loves to read and even mention some classics that sound like the Institute. But if that first date goes further, it is unlikely that you will see it with another reading other than the sports newspaper.
3 Customs.
What a luck you have had because this guy is the most incredible. Will it be the ideal man?
He says he likes mimes, evenings cuddled on the couch and take his girl breakfast in bed.
Wake up, it cannot be true, you’re dreaming.
4 Leisure.
On that first date that man also presents the most interesting. He tells you anecdotes about his trips and practices a lot of sports, among them surfing, of course, which is why you found him .
He also likes movies and does not make glasses sick. What more could you want? It is true.
5 Character.
If you notice, all the men on the first dates are adorable, witty and with a great sense of humor. They also have an open and tolerant mentality and they even seem to listen to you.
It’s pure and hard marketing and you recognize that you do too, that you like to surprise and impress that guy you’re meeting.
So let time pass to distinguish what is true from what is fantasy.