You can always claim that you did not know what you were doing. And in some cases, after a while until you can laugh at the nonsense that you did those first days after the breakup.
But for your emotional tranquility, it will be better for you to hold back and do not do some things when they just leave you.
1.Alcohol
Do not drink to forget, even if it is the favorite activity of the protagonists of the movies when they suffer a break.
This is real life and the reality is that the criminals do not drown in a cup because they are expert swimmers. The only thing you’re going to get is to add to your woes a horrible hangover.
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An explanation.
I have left you, you still love him and, above all, you want an explanation that makes you feel better. No matter what excuse I have given to you, nothing I say will make you feel better for a while, so do not look for reassuring explanations, find a way to accept their decision.
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Calls.
Under no circumstances call your ex. Not even if you forgot something important in your house. Do not call him at the moment, the only thing you will get is that your self-esteem crumbles a little more and it will cost you more time to recover.
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Whatsapp.
Is there anyone in the world who has not felt an inconvenience WhatsApp to their ex? No one, there is no one free of this capital without, but we must try. The WhatsApp in full rupture are the enemies of your dignity. When they leave you and you have the feeling of having lost everything, the best thing is to keep your dignity intact.
Requests Without calls and without messages, the objective is that you do not ask your ex for a second chance. Do not try to keep a person who wants to leave your side, it never goes well.
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Social networks
All experts recommend removing your ex from social networks for a while to put the distance you need to recover. All experts know that you are unable to do so as you are unable to stalke or gossip on your Facebook, your Twitter and your Instagram to see what you are doing and with whom. You yourself, but this is more than forbidden.
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Bed.
You have not followed any of our tips and one of your messages has hit the nail on the head. Your ex wants to stay to talk, of course. Of course you end up in bed. Sleeping with your ex is forbidden, but you are a rebel, right? We only warn of the danger.
7.Guard Yourself
Most of the things you cannot do when they leave you are related to the figure of your ex. This is because of the first days, when you have not yet accepted that you are over, your ex focuses your life.
Have your ex-boyfriend very present those fateful days, do not let your guard down. If you manage to spend the first week without doing any nonsense, I will move to the background and you will be able to focus on you and overcome the break.