Content creator and influencer Ruth K has made it crystal clear—she may be single, but she’s not searching. The social media star, who recently ended her relationship with comedian Kendrick Mulamwah, has shut down any hopes from admirers hoping to slide into her DMs.
In a candid YouTube video, Ruth K revealed that although she is currently not in a relationship, she is also not looking to get into one any time soon. “Okay, I am not in a relationship at the moment, I am not in the market, but I am single,” she said. “One thing I think most people get wrong is that if someone is not in a relationship, you all think she is searching.” She went on to explain that being single doesn’t automatically mean someone is available or actively seeking a partner. Sometimes, people choose to remain solo in order to focus on themselves and plan their lives intentionally.
Her comments came just days after she noticeably skipped Mulamwah’s birthday. The comedian celebrated by gifting himself a brand-new luxury car, revealing that he had used money he had been saving for their cancelled wedding. While some people speculated that the breakup might have been a publicity stunt to push ticket sales for Mulamwah’s comedy shows, Ruth appeared unbothered. She stepped out shortly after the announcement looking radiant in a blue suit, confidently showing off her post-breakup glow.
She also gave fans a look at her new living space, featuring modern décor including a plush couch, a classy coffee table, and a massive flat-screen TV. Observant followers noticed that the curtains and tiles were different from those in Mulamwah’s home, sparking speculation about whether she had moved or if the apartment was an Airbnb. Ruth did not comment on the speculation, choosing instead to continue sharing her journey without directly addressing the rumors.
Prior to their split, Mulamwah had admitted during an interview that he would never be able to forgive Ruth if she cheated on him. At the time, the two had not yet publicly confirmed their breakup, but the tension was evident. Despite their differences, Mulamwah described Ruth as a supportive partner and praised her for maintaining a level of privacy about her personal life—even noting that most people didn’t know her real name. He also revealed that he was not on good terms with his other child, whom he shares with ex-girlfriend Carol Sonnie.
While the end of their relationship may have disappointed many fans, Ruth K seems to be writing a new chapter for herself—one that doesn’t involve rushing into anything. She’s focused on her peace, her child, and her growth. And for anyone still hoping to shoot their shot, Ruth’s message is loud and clear: she’s not in the market.
