There are times when relationships break up but that break is not forever, like love. And it turns out that you are in a situation where you want to resume the relationship with your ex.
How to do it? Be careful because there are some things you should not do if you want to go back with your partner. We entered the slippery terrain to recover an ex.
If you want to return with your partner, avoid these situations
Have you thought about it? See that second chances in love do not always work, see that it is not a decision taken by the weight of loneliness and see that you are very sure that yours has an arrangement and can work this time. If you already have it clear, now pay attention to things you should not do if you want to get your partner back.
1.Do not chase your ex
Pursuing your ex just after the breakup is not the best tactic to return. Nor is it to send Whatsapp every day and at all times, emails, phone calls or ‘casual’ meetings at the end of work. You know their routines and it will be easy for you to meet them, but your ex needs to spend some time alone to reflect.
Within the chase your ex also enter virtual espionage tactics like obsessing with the time of your last connection, watching your activity in social networks continuously or investigate those new friendships that have appeared after the break. Turn off time because you also need it.
2.Do not pressure your ex
Obviously if you want to go back to your ex, you’ll have to tell him, he’s not a fortune teller. Well, this is a delicate moment because you never know if it is better to tell your intentions through a message, a call or staying for coffee.
When deciding the way and the place to tell you that you want to go back with him, remember that it is two people. If he is not very convinced do not press.
By pressing we mean that he may prefer not to have contact with you to overcome the rupture, not insist on staying with him if he is reluctant and accept your decision if you do not see that this time could work.
3.Do not target your family through
When a long relationship breaks, family members are unavoidable. Families also suffer with the breakup, but that does not mean that you should get in touch with your family to intervene. No matter how well you take with your mother-in-law or as much as your sister-in-law is delighted with the prospect of your return, keep them on the sidelines. This is just a thing of two.
4.Do not blackmail your ex
Avoid getting intense with your ex, reserve the tremendous for when you are with your friends. Do not even think of letting go of poetic phrases like ‘I can not live without you’ or ‘I die without you’ because, apart from not being true (even if you believe them), they can lead to emotional blackmail and achieve your goal, return with your partner, but because you feel responsible for you. And you do not want that, believe us.
5.Do not be confused with the reasons
The most important thing is that you do not confuse yourself with the reasons why you want to return with your ex. It is normal for you to be confused, it is a side effect of a loving breakup, but before making a decision like returning you must be very sure that you do it for the right reasons.
And the only correct reason is that the break was a mistake and you still want. The rest, the feeling of loneliness, not having adapted to the life of single, that you have not yet become accustomed to be without it, the fear of not having a partner or the one you think you have both changed as if by magic, are wrong motives.
