When your love goes bad all the time, it does not mean that you have bad luck but that there are patterns that repeat themselves with all your partners and that is why an unconscious tendency to failure is created.
Don’t blame the night, the beach or the rain. It is normal to first seek to hold third parties responsible for our mistakes before identifying that there is something wrong with us and that if not resolved, they will be dead ends.
Patterns that repeat with all your partners and doom them to failure
You avoid fights
Differences are part of a relationship and must be faced with maudrez.- Pinterest Bookriot.
Avoiding fighting with your partner is just as harmful as fighting excessively and when you can’t take it anymore, a bomb of stratospheric sizes is released that ends up making a dent in the feelings of the other.
In these cases, the healthiest way is to have small discussions every so often that end in agreements to mutually improve and strengthen communication.
Do everything together
It is important to give your partner space.- Pinterest Ok Girls.
If you are one of those who does not detach from your partner, it is time to review how your emotional dependency is towards that person because in a relationship individuality should always prevail.
It takes time alone and connecting with other people to maintain a healthy balance, as indicated by Glamor.
Jealousy in excess
When jealousy stops being punctual and occasional, it is evident that there are strong insecurities in you that have turned into toxic patterns that are repeated with all your partners.
These can reach the unhealthy point of arising as soon as your partner has contact with someone of the opposite sex or even ask for their social network keys to see who they talk to. You have to work on self-confidence and self-esteem.
You must trust your partner, but especially you.
Face mistakes
This is an evil commonly associated with women, but if you practically keep a record of all the faults of your partner to attack him when your patience is full, you are not carrying out forgiveness and you are holding on to the resentment that prevents you from turning the page.
Maintaining those feelings will only take away energy, encouragement and hope, so it is necessary to work in therapy on a restructuring of the “I”, to repair damage and negative emotions and find inner peace.
