Your thought that a couple’s relationship was a matter of two ended until you met the mother of your boyfriend and broke all the schemes, nerves and patience.
If you are not one of the lucky ones, you will surely be recognized in these 5 typical problems between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law.
Problems with mothers-in-law can be many, since the relationship with them is usually complicated.
But there are 5 disagreements especially frequent when it comes to your partner’s mother.
1 Sundays
We believe that couples have been forced to eat on Sundays with one or the other family. We do not know the reason, but the mothers-in-law have clung to this ancestral custom that is a real nuisance for the daughters-in-law.
2 The holidays.
Sundays, birthdays but also Christmas and holiday periods in general are the domain of mothers-in-law.
A bad daughter-in-law has to fight a lot to mark territory and not let her mother-in-law spoil her for a well-deserved vacation.
3 Children.
If it is already difficult for the couple to agree on the subject of the children, the irruption of the mother-in-law as caretaker of the children can break the family balance.
Because your mother-in-law will know how to raise children, even if she cannot guarantee an acceptable result.
4 The child.
When we talk about children, we do not talk about your mother-in-law’s grandchildren. We refer to your husband, her child, who is now your partner and pretends to be a mature adult man, but who becomes an obedient child in front of his mother.
5 You
We cannot deny it. Your mother-in-law’s big problem is you. She does not like you, she feels you are not good enough for her child.
Do not take it personally and try to make your hints slip away enough to not cause an ulcer.