“Eyes that do not see, heart that does not feel”, says the saying. And there is no greater truth in the world than that.
When you put an end to a relationship with someone you love, your heart needs hundreds of bands to recover. One of the biggest cures is to stop seeing and know about your ex’s life. To shelve, start a new life and break any existing bond with that other person.
The biggest problem comes when he or she is connected to you through social networks.
What to do in that case? Stop following him or her on Facebook and Instagram? Block him/her on WhatsApp?
Doubts invades your head. On the one hand you want to eliminate him/her from your life, but on the other hand you cling to the only thing that you have left of him/her: his/her publications on social networks.
Today, from, we give you some advice: You must stop following your ex on social networks and we will explain why.
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You need to turn page
A break is always hard. You will pass through several inevitable phases, among which are sadness, anger, frustration .
If you are trying to overcome these stages, you will see what your ex does every day, what new publications have you uploaded or what new friends have followed him/her.
You will do something other than torture yourself and make the recovery process much more difficult.
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To move forward you have to stop looking back
You have left him with him or her, but you are still stuck in the past.
When you get home after work, all you do is recreate yourself in your social networks, look up and down those old photos in which you went out together and happy and review one by one those comments or messages in which you said very many you loved The best thing is that you stop looking at the past or you will not be able to welcome the future.
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What is to eat can be wonderful
Surely you’ve spent two hours checking your profile with a magnifying glass and you have not noticed that handsome guy from the gym who does not stop throwing you intentional glares. When are you going to wake up and start living?
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Stop following him/her on the networks and enjoy the time for yourself
The time is gold. Do you really want to waste it by hurting you with something that is not going anywhere? If instead of investing the hours in watching your Facebook or your Instagram, you use them to meet a good friend or go to the hairdresser to change your look we assure you that very soon you will start to be happy again.
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Live and let live
You have the option of looking at your social networks in silence, but there is also the alternative of continuing to “like” your photos, continue answering the stories or continue sharing all your publications
If you do this, you will make things much more difficult what they already are. I have decided to put an end to what is yours and as much as it is hurts you, you must let him go so that both of you can start your lives anew.
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You will be happier
At first it will cost you, but once you give the unfollow button we assure you that you will feel calmer, your stress will be reduced and you will be much more aware of the good things that your new life can bring.